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  1. tater39
    August 1, 2008 at 2:05 pm | |

    Oh, I just have to respond to this one!!!! (a first – probably shouldn’t)

    Mothers? Wives, Ex-wives? Girlfriends? Lovers? By the time a guy has been condemed,
    censured, maligned(author of article)by each and every one of these women, for one reason or another, it’s a damned miracle that we want anything to do with any of them again!

    Probably the guys who are asking the questions are the one’s who are reading the books! Ever read any of them? (anyone?) I haven’t, but have read many articles, (such as this one) general consensus is; ask if your unsure. Seems to me it would make sense. I assume (I realize I shouldn’t) that everyone’s body is different, and therefore responds differently to different stimuli! Why in the hell can’t you say, “easier, softer, harder, here, there” or take our hands or face and gently place them where in the hell you want them? We don’t know “your particular” preference! How the hell could we? – you don’t even know! It begs the question: How many women have you been with?

    God Forbid! We guys might, just might, want to please a woman. Given some guidance; we might, just might, be able to do that!

    Why? I don’t have a clue!!!!

  2. doublet
    August 17, 2008 at 12:38 pm | |

    Anything goes when pleasing the opposit sex The more knowlege one brings to the party the more one leaves with

  3. CK
    October 26, 2008 at 5:25 pm | |

    I don’t doubt that a percentage of older guys are sexually incompetent, although that equally applies to females.

    If you are laying there waiting for it to be over, then you are getting what you deserve.

  4. Ronnie
    November 4, 2008 at 11:17 am | |

    I am 55 years old and married but not having sex anymore for some reason. I am trying to find a partner close by for the ocasional lust and sex if willing on a weekly or biweekly date. Of course we would go out for dinners ,movies and anything else. I just don’t want to spend the rest of my life masterbating with my computer porn when I could be getting some better exercize with a great lady and have some fun as well.
    I don’t know how to connect with any ladies near where I live and don’t mind driving some for a relationship like this and don’t want any strings attached mutually agreed upon,,,only to share myself with another woman for pleasure.,,,,,,We are only human and have needs,,,don’t we ??,,,,,,,Ronnie

  5. rosebud1950
    February 1, 2010 at 11:08 am | |

    The suggestion was made to go to a book store? Well, I’m sure some guys would not even consider that one. Have you ever heard of buying books online at sites such as or, etc. Nobody needs to know!

  6. April 24, 2010 at 6:48 am | |

    With me and lots of others, it really isn’t physical. It’s all in the head, if we know our mate is a little naughty we get turned on!

  7. Joe
    August 16, 2010 at 9:30 am | |

    Perhaps if you are being questioned by the guy it is becuase you are not volunteering enough info. Also – if you are just lying there waiting for him to show you something then you deserve to have less than a stellar experience. Communicate!

  8. Caretaker
    September 27, 2010 at 2:41 pm | |

    I always pleased my wife, 33 years of pleasure, giving her 3-6 orgasms before I did anything. That wasn’t enough. She dried up and complains of every lube burning her, saliva causes yeast infections, She no longer wants anything I can give. She wants something different, bigger, richer and younger. Most all women are whores, the men spend their lives trying to please the selfish attention whores that they are. It’s a sad day, who said women aren’t the ones wanting sex? They want it, they just don’t want to give it the way the men want it. Its always their way or the highway. Now she wants someone else, figures, she was never giving, always wanting. For time and until she is tired of you or finds someone else. Men are the loving ones, women are the takers.

  9. December 3, 2010 at 8:59 am | |

    I think stress can have a negative effect on sex drive, not through emotion but through pressure at work or from life in general.

    Ive found exercise helps and even taking time out to relax and taking a deep breath from time to time. Natural herbals can also help blood circulation.

    Thats my twopence worth!

  10. December 5, 2010 at 3:53 am | |

    Whatever sex you have experienced, there is always something new. It is also depend on your partner,her wishes, openess and experience.

    December 6, 2010 at 7:56 am | |

    Are you still looking for someone to connect with? I live in NE Ohio and think we would get along great based on what you wrote.

  12. July 12, 2011 at 6:43 am | |

    I feel that any sexual activity should be started with a romantic start before heating it up. This way both the man and woman enjoy.

  13. SummerInTheCity
    July 6, 2013 at 2:02 pm | |

    Joanne R. spun more than a fair share of sarcasm into the article. Controlling for that, I like her theme. I’m a man over 50, and I like getting busy. So anything that helps me to be a better lover is a good thing. I just worry that now…by adding Joanne’s advice to my mix, I’ll be too good; future bed partners ruined for everyone but me. :-)