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  1. Carols2wow
    April 25, 2009 at 9:45 am | |

    Most men think that all women are the same. Maybe that woman who is satisfied with 2 or 3 minutes isn’t really all that sexual and is glad it’s over with that fast. Seriously, though, a woman who needs and wants great sex has to be with a great sex partner…anything less is going to be leaving her dissatisfied. If the man can’t maintain for long, he can use paraphernalia and other techniques to totally satisfy his woman. For women, it’s a lot easier to satisfy their man if they really are sexual and not just doing it as a chore. The problem is that it’s very difficult of meet your perfect match…especially in the later years. Oh, and not all over 60 women don’t like sex, and one orgasm is an appetizer to some of us.

    April 25, 2009 at 5:17 pm | |

    I read this funny one a few days ago:

    The reason women fake orgasms is because they think men care…

  3. Sheerilee
    April 30, 2009 at 6:15 pm | |

    I think Steve has the right idea. I stopped worrying just about if I pleased my husband years ago and started wondering if he was pleasing me. Sex is not just for the man being pleased but the woman also by her partner.

  4. Rolyat
    May 1, 2009 at 7:31 pm | |

    Sex was something that was introduced to me when I was 18 years old and for which I was totally unprepared.
    From reading your articles and readers comments, it is patently obvious that most of us had little or no “Schooling” in the art of being a great sexual partner – which is a shame – and has made a great many of us poorer for it.
    It is unfortunate that many men use women simply as a means of self gratification, without realizing that they are only receiving half the pleasure.
    There is nothing more satisfying than climaxing in unison with your partner.
    I was lucky enough to meet a woman while in my mid twenties, who taught me how to be a good partner and I will be forever grateful to her.
    I am now 71 years old and still have great sex at least twice a week and my wonderful wife orgasms at least twice each session.
    And NO I don’t need Viagra as I have constantly used it and not lost it !!

  5. Les
    May 5, 2009 at 2:49 pm | |

    At 59, I find myself wanting sex more often. But it’s not just the act of sex; it has to be mutual desire, the total act of pleasing each other with consideration for not only our orgasms but also for the trust we have that this is for each other, without thought to ourselves.
    From the first day of sex, in my late teens, it has always been about my partner, her complete satisfaction. My satisfaction was and remains secondary because, and I know this sounds weird, to me the sensuality of it all is so fulfilling.
    The sites, sounds, smells, the touch and taste all are so important to me. I don’t want to be deprived of any of that. And while an orgasm is pleasurable, it is not the first and only goal.
    After all, there is so much pleasure in pleasing her for hours. I find myself so turned on, so crazy pleasing my partner first. Why deprive myself and her of that?

  6. MaryL
    May 12, 2009 at 4:48 pm | |

    I’m a 52 year old woman, and orgasm is a very important part of sex for me. I’m uncomfortable if tension builds and there’s no release. My husband enjoys me reaction to him, as I enjoy his.

  7. June 22, 2009 at 11:12 pm | |

    Anyone who says orgasm isn’t important has never had one.

  8. June 9, 2010 at 12:24 am | |

    I from India.In india most women dissatisfy in their sexual life. coz men are think that women are passive partner. and men are no clue how to satisfy their women.coz sex knowlage is totally band in indian culture.It is unfortunate. It’s a wonderful article.