How Many More Sexual Years Have you Got Left?
By Gary Geyer Well, here’s good news for those of us in our 50s and 60s: Many of us can look forward to sex into our 70s and 80s. Really? Yes! Sexual Behavior among older adults According to a study presented at the annual meeting of the American Urological Association, older people are still interested [...]
Sex Obstacles After 50
By Gary Geyer You would think at this point in life it would be smooth sailing. There’s Viagra, hormone therapy, sex toys, manuals, how-to tapes and pornography. So what’s the problem? Why aren’t we going at it like bunnies in heat? Well, for one thing, we’ve got a lot on our minds. There are real-life [...]
Women Maintaining their Sexual Self Esteem after 50.
By Deborah Nedelman Ph.D and Leah Kliger MHA Women from all over the country and from varied backgrounds and walks of life have told us how their sexual self image has changed as they have gotten older. By examining their life stories, we have come to recognize that those who have weathered the storms of [...]
You are Over 50. What Kind of Lover Are You?
By Dr. Joel Block Of the many forms of intimacy—a smile across the room, a shared hardship, a family ritual, a kiss, a touch—sex is probably fraught with more confusion, unrealistic expectations, misunderstanding, and disillusionment than any other. The Promise Sex promises emotional fulfillment, security, reassurance, and intimacy, even if it often fails to deliver. [...]
10 Things Sex Cures after 50
By Gary Geyer We always knew that sex is fun. Now we find out it’s also good for what ails you. Print this out and tape to your medicine cabinet. 1. Not tonight dear, I have a headache. Relief is on the way. One evening of sex can release the tension that restricts blood vessels [...]
After 50, Can Good Sex Become Great Sex?
Compiled by Gary Geyer Chat rooms often become forums for people to sound off or say inane things. Recently I was perusing them and found one that surprised me. Someone asked a very interesting question. The responses it elicited were thoughtful and insightful, never flippant. [I hope I’m not doing anything I shouldn’t by collecting [...]
Sexual Complaint #1: Men over 50 who don’t Know their Way Around a Woman’s Body.
By Joanne R. When I’m having sex with a man, nothing bugs me more than when he acts like he’s in virgin territory. (No pun intended.) You would think that after a guy gets past a certain age, like fifty or so, he would know how to make love to a woman’s body. I can’t [...]
Are Our Best Sexual Years Behind Us?
By Gary Geyer Over 50, over the hill? You’re tired, you’re bored. You don’t look or feel as good as you did when you were thirty. Neither does your partner. Great sex is just in your dreams.It’s unfortunate, but that’s what many of uspast 50 think. Bah, humbug! I’m here to tell you, at your [...]
The Sex Lives of Couples Beyond 50
By Deborah Nedelman, Ph.D and Leah Kliger, MHA It used to be so easy. You’ve been together for a long time (could it really be more than 30 years?) and sex has generally been a reliable, carefree part of your relationship. Things have begun to change though, and it’s getting you down. What’s your [...]
Take the Over 50 Sex Quiz
By Gary Geyer The information in this article was acquired from the book “Sex Over 50” by Dr. Joel Block. By Gary Geyer Once we are past 50, we either consider ourselves experts on sex or think ‘if we haven’t figured it out by now, we probably never will’. Well, just the fact that you [...]
50plus Sex Fantasy Interviews
By Gary Geyer and Linda Meyers What’s Your Fantasy? We are happy to report that many (most?) of us in the 50+ age group are active physically and mentally — so says our small, (but select) group. Most said that their bodies may not be what they used to be but their minds were still [...]
