Comments on: How Important is your Orgasm? Our Readers Reply http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/ 50 plus Community & Magazine Sat, 31 Jul 2010 20:49:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.1 By: Jessica http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1791 Jessica Tue, 23 Jun 2009 07:12:47 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1791 Anyone who says orgasm isn't important has never had one. Anyone who says orgasm isn’t important has never had one.

]]> By: MaryL http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1742 MaryL Wed, 13 May 2009 00:48:19 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1742 I'm a 52 year old woman, and orgasm is a very important part of sex for me. I'm uncomfortable if tension builds and there's no release. My husband enjoys me reaction to him, as I enjoy his. I’m a 52 year old woman, and orgasm is a very important part of sex for me. I’m uncomfortable if tension builds and there’s no release. My husband enjoys me reaction to him, as I enjoy his.

]]> By: Les http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1737 Les Tue, 05 May 2009 22:49:16 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1737 At 59, I find myself wanting sex more often. But it's not just the act of sex; it has to be mutual desire, the total act of pleasing each other with consideration for not only our orgasms but also for the trust we have that this is for each other, without thought to ourselves. From the first day of sex, in my late teens, it has always been about my partner, her complete satisfaction. My satisfaction was and remains secondary because, and I know this sounds weird, to me the sensuality of it all is so fulfilling. The sites, sounds, smells, the touch and taste all are so important to me. I don't want to be deprived of any of that. And while an orgasm is pleasurable, it is not the first and only goal. After all, there is so much pleasure in pleasing her for hours. I find myself so turned on, so crazy pleasing my partner first. Why deprive myself and her of that? At 59, I find myself wanting sex more often. But it’s not just the act of sex; it has to be mutual desire, the total act of pleasing each other with consideration for not only our orgasms but also for the trust we have that this is for each other, without thought to ourselves.
From the first day of sex, in my late teens, it has always been about my partner, her complete satisfaction. My satisfaction was and remains secondary because, and I know this sounds weird, to me the sensuality of it all is so fulfilling.
The sites, sounds, smells, the touch and taste all are so important to me. I don’t want to be deprived of any of that. And while an orgasm is pleasurable, it is not the first and only goal.
After all, there is so much pleasure in pleasing her for hours. I find myself so turned on, so crazy pleasing my partner first. Why deprive myself and her of that?

]]> By: Rolyat http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1731 Rolyat Sat, 02 May 2009 03:31:04 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1731 Sex was something that was introduced to me when I was 18 years old and for which I was totally unprepared. From reading your articles and readers comments, it is patently obvious that most of us had little or no "Schooling" in the art of being a great sexual partner - which is a shame - and has made a great many of us poorer for it. It is unfortunate that many men use women simply as a means of self gratification, without realizing that they are only receiving half the pleasure. There is nothing more satisfying than climaxing in unison with your partner. I was lucky enough to meet a woman while in my mid twenties, who taught me how to be a good partner and I will be forever grateful to her. I am now 71 years old and still have great sex at least twice a week and my wonderful wife orgasms at least twice each session. And NO I don't need Viagra as I have constantly used it and not lost it !! Sex was something that was introduced to me when I was 18 years old and for which I was totally unprepared.
From reading your articles and readers comments, it is patently obvious that most of us had little or no “Schooling” in the art of being a great sexual partner - which is a shame - and has made a great many of us poorer for it.
It is unfortunate that many men use women simply as a means of self gratification, without realizing that they are only receiving half the pleasure.
There is nothing more satisfying than climaxing in unison with your partner.
I was lucky enough to meet a woman while in my mid twenties, who taught me how to be a good partner and I will be forever grateful to her.
I am now 71 years old and still have great sex at least twice a week and my wonderful wife orgasms at least twice each session.
And NO I don’t need Viagra as I have constantly used it and not lost it !!

]]> By: Sheerilee http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1728 Sheerilee Fri, 01 May 2009 02:15:05 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1728 I think Steve has the right idea. I stopped worrying just about if I pleased my husband years ago and started wondering if he was pleasing me. Sex is not just for the man being pleased but the woman also by her partner. I think Steve has the right idea. I stopped worrying just about if I pleased my husband years ago and started wondering if he was pleasing me. Sex is not just for the man being pleased but the woman also by her partner.

]]> By: Nancymcg1@verizon.net http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1726 Nancymcg1@verizon.net Sun, 26 Apr 2009 01:17:19 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1726 I read this funny one a few days ago: The reason women fake orgasms is because they think men care... Ha! I read this funny one a few days ago:

The reason women fake orgasms is because they think men care…
Ha!

]]> By: Carols2wow http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1725 Carols2wow Sat, 25 Apr 2009 17:45:49 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2009/04/24/how-important-is-your-orgasm-our-readers-reply/#comment-1725 Most men think that all women are the same. Maybe that woman who is satisfied with 2 or 3 minutes isn't really all that sexual and is glad it's over with that fast. Seriously, though, a woman who needs and wants great sex has to be with a great sex partner...anything less is going to be leaving her dissatisfied. If the man can't maintain for long, he can use paraphernalia and other techniques to totally satisfy his woman. For women, it's a lot easier to satisfy their man if they really are sexual and not just doing it as a chore. The problem is that it's very difficult of meet your perfect match...especially in the later years. Oh, and not all over 60 women don't like sex, and one orgasm is an appetizer to some of us. Most men think that all women are the same. Maybe that woman who is satisfied with 2 or 3 minutes isn’t really all that sexual and is glad it’s over with that fast. Seriously, though, a woman who needs and wants great sex has to be with a great sex partner…anything less is going to be leaving her dissatisfied. If the man can’t maintain for long, he can use paraphernalia and other techniques to totally satisfy his woman. For women, it’s a lot easier to satisfy their man if they really are sexual and not just doing it as a chore. The problem is that it’s very difficult of meet your perfect match…especially in the later years. Oh, and not all over 60 women don’t like sex, and one orgasm is an appetizer to some of us.

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