http://www.letlifein.com/2008/11/06/a-10-step-guide-to-marrying-a-widower-2/ 50 plus Community & Magazine Sat, 13 Mar 2010 22:35:03 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.1 http://www.letlifein.com/2008/11/06/a-10-step-guide-to-marrying-a-widower-2/#comment-1916 jlew Thu, 03 Dec 2009 07:06:23 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2008/11/06/a-10-step-guide-to-marrying-a-widower-2/#comment-1916 I have fallen in love with a widower. His wife died of cancer almost three years ago. He is so good to me, but he still loves his first wife dearly. He takes little gifts to her gravesite on holidays. I can tell he misses her deaply. There are pictures in his house of her in family photos. He has their wedding photo up in a curio cabinet with some other momentos. Her baby picuture is up on his desk. I can see the pain in his eyes when he misses her. I don't know if I can live with all of his missing her. It hurts me terribly to think I am second and always will be. I don't know if I can live a life with him forever dealing with his pain. It breaks my heart because I will always be second. I have fallen in love with a widower. His wife died of cancer almost three years ago. He is so good to me, but he still loves his first wife dearly. He takes little gifts to her gravesite on holidays. I can tell he misses her deaply. There are pictures in his house of her in family photos. He has their wedding photo up in a curio cabinet with some other momentos. Her baby picuture is up on his desk. I can see the pain in his eyes when he misses her. I don’t know if I can live with all of his missing her. It hurts me terribly to think I am second and always will be. I don’t know if I can live a life with him forever dealing with his pain. It breaks my heart because I will always be second.

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