Comments on: 5 Ways to Overcome Mental Sex Hang-ups after 50 http://www.letlifein.com/2008/09/23/5-ways-to-overcome-mental-sex-hang-ups-after-50/ 50 plus Community & Magazine Sat, 31 Jul 2010 21:31:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.1 By: Dr. Joel Block http://www.letlifein.com/2008/09/23/5-ways-to-overcome-mental-sex-hang-ups-after-50/#comment-1713 Dr. Joel Block Thu, 09 Apr 2009 14:41:24 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2008/09/23/5-ways-to-overcome-mental-sex-hang-ups-after-50/#comment-1713 Actually, I don't think that has been established. What we know is that he doesn't like sex with YOU. I'm not trying to be cute here, it's just that I have been "surprised" too many times over the years to rely on assumptions. Actually, I don’t think that has been established. What we know is that he doesn’t like sex with YOU.

I’m not trying to be cute here, it’s just that I have been “surprised” too many times over the years to rely on assumptions.

]]> By: rosegord http://www.letlifein.com/2008/09/23/5-ways-to-overcome-mental-sex-hang-ups-after-50/#comment-1710 rosegord Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:18:28 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2008/09/23/5-ways-to-overcome-mental-sex-hang-ups-after-50/#comment-1710 Thank you, Dr. Block. Thats a very good idea. You were dead-on about him not wanting to go to therapy. I will give it a reply. Don't you think it is unusual that a MAN doesn't like sex?? Thank you, Dr. Block. Thats a very good idea. You were dead-on about him not wanting to go to therapy. I will give it a reply. Don’t you think it is unusual that a MAN doesn’t like sex??

]]> By: Dr. Joel Block http://www.letlifein.com/2008/09/23/5-ways-to-overcome-mental-sex-hang-ups-after-50/#comment-1707 Dr. Joel Block Tue, 07 Apr 2009 00:07:11 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2008/09/23/5-ways-to-overcome-mental-sex-hang-ups-after-50/#comment-1707 Whoa, disgusting? I'm thinking you and your guy need to talk this out with a psychologist who has experience dealing with sexuality. Oh, your hubby won't go? The same situation came up with a woman I saw several years ago. The husband started out very reluctant in treatment. "How did you decide to come in?" I asked. The wife spoke up. "I told him it's not optional, he goes or I go on strike. That means I won't make the bed, cook, do the laundry, clean up around our place, etc." She stuck with the strike and he softened his position on the therapy. Will that work for you? Whoa, disgusting? I’m thinking you and your guy need to talk this out with a psychologist who has experience dealing with sexuality.

Oh, your hubby won’t go? The same situation came up with a woman I saw several years ago. The husband started out very reluctant in treatment.

“How did you decide to come in?” I asked. The wife spoke up. “I told him it’s not optional, he goes or I go on strike. That means I won’t make the bed, cook, do the laundry, clean up around our place, etc.”

She stuck with the strike and he softened his position on the therapy. Will that work for you?

]]> By: rosegord http://www.letlifein.com/2008/09/23/5-ways-to-overcome-mental-sex-hang-ups-after-50/#comment-1698 rosegord Sun, 29 Mar 2009 13:54:18 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2008/09/23/5-ways-to-overcome-mental-sex-hang-ups-after-50/#comment-1698 Dr. Block, My husband thinks sex is "disgusting". He has been like this for at least 20 years and is unable to ejaculate. He can be aroused but thatis about it. He says he loves me and I don't doubt that but something needs to be done as I have my needs and have suffered long enough. Dr. Block,

My husband thinks sex is “disgusting”. He has been like this for at least 20 years and is unable to ejaculate. He can be aroused but thatis about it. He says he loves me and I don’t doubt that but something needs to be done as I have my needs and have suffered long enough.

]]> By: Dr. Joel Block http://www.letlifein.com/2008/09/23/5-ways-to-overcome-mental-sex-hang-ups-after-50/#comment-1429 Dr. Joel Block Tue, 14 Oct 2008 12:57:00 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2008/09/23/5-ways-to-overcome-mental-sex-hang-ups-after-50/#comment-1429 Johnny, not to worry. I know something about the dating world. My forthcoming book: The Real Reasons Men Commit: Why he Will--Or Will Not--Love, Honor and Marry You, Adams Media, Dec. I can tell you this: It's a man's world out there. Stay cool, treat women well, learn the language of emotion and you will find love. In fact, write back after a few months. I'm betting you will have stumbled into an embarrassment of riches. Best wishes, Joel Johnny, not to worry. I know something about the dating world. My forthcoming book: The Real Reasons Men Commit: Why he Will–Or Will Not–Love, Honor and Marry You, Adams Media, Dec.

I can tell you this: It’s a man’s world out there. Stay cool, treat women well, learn the language of emotion and you will find love.

In fact, write back after a few months. I’m betting you will have stumbled into an embarrassment of riches.

Best wishes, Joel

]]> By: Johnny Zap http://www.letlifein.com/2008/09/23/5-ways-to-overcome-mental-sex-hang-ups-after-50/#comment-1408 Johnny Zap Thu, 09 Oct 2008 03:38:19 +0000 http://www.letlifein.com/2008/09/23/5-ways-to-overcome-mental-sex-hang-ups-after-50/#comment-1408 I'm male, 52 years young, and going threw a divorce, because my wife won't have a sexual relationship with me. I'm scared to death about finding new love. I wish I had some reasuance of my life. I am healthy and think I am still young. Whats a guy to do? I’m male, 52 years young, and going threw a divorce, because my wife won’t have a sexual relationship with me. I’m scared to death about finding new love. I wish I had some reasuance of my life. I am healthy and think I am still young. Whats a guy to do?

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